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The Move In.

In my previous post I talked about "5 Things They Don't Tell You About Moving In Together." I wanted to take a step further in today's post to tell you a more detailed account of things I did and have noticed about the days following the move in with my ex (almost) husband.

When we were dating and before we got married my ex (almost) husband was all about getting married after we graduated college and started a career. He was in school to become a physical therapist and it would have taken more than 5 years to complete all the schooling, etc. that he needed to start a career.

... then less than 6 months later we found out that I was pregnant with my now 3 year old... and he proposed. THIS was a red flag for my parents... why I did not listen? I don't know.

I honestly don't even remember them saying anything about it.

Other before we were married things I knew but never addressed... I knew he was a cheater. I found videos, images, text messages, etc. on his p…

Destiny- January 2nd

"Destiny is for losers. It's just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen." - Blair Waldorf

Don't get me wrong I ALWAYS use the term "if it doesn't happen it wasn't meant to be." And I am without a doubt a big believer in everything happens for a reason and God has a plan (Jeremiah 29:11 was my go to verse in high school).

Destiny however is something that we can change in just one single moment of effort. The more effort we put into our lives, the better off our "destiny" becomes.

I am taking steps today, tomorrow, this week and next in order to make sure that I change my future for the better.

Baby steps.



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