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The Move In.

In my previous post I talked about "5 Things They Don't Tell You About Moving In Together." I wanted to take a step further in today's post to tell you a more detailed account of things I did and have noticed about the days following the move in with my ex (almost) husband.

When we were dating and before we got married my ex (almost) husband was all about getting married after we graduated college and started a career. He was in school to become a physical therapist and it would have taken more than 5 years to complete all the schooling, etc. that he needed to start a career.

... then less than 6 months later we found out that I was pregnant with my now 3 year old... and he proposed. THIS was a red flag for my parents... why I did not listen? I don't know.

I honestly don't even remember them saying anything about it.

Other before we were married things I knew but never addressed... I knew he was a cheater. I found videos, images, text messages, etc. on his p…

Love is... January 5th

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 

6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 

7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

In yesterday's quote of the day post we talked about divorce. Which led us to love.

What is love? Does anyone really know what love is?

I read somewhere that when you "love" someone you should place your name in verses above and they should do the same. When you love someone you will convey that through the actions stated. For example:

If I used my name verse 4 would say Brittani is patient, Brittani is kind. She does not envy, she does not boast, she is not proud.

Honestly, I can say that I am not perfect when it comes to these things. BUT I think anyone can say that. These attributes are something we should be working towards every day. Whether we are around someone we are talking to, dating, etc.

Remember saying you love someone and showing them you love them are two different things.

Still. . . Mistakes do happen. Remember that. But mistakes shouldn't happen over and over and over and over and over again.



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